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Showing posts with label marriage. Show all posts

The Goeglein Family {a family portrait session}

I had a wonderful time with this family! Those boys are full of energy...but it's the good kind of energy! They were kind and polite and happily did anything I asked them to do!

It was obvious Darren and Apryl love each other. They were so sweet together and I could tell they're not just husband and wife, but also best friends. As I searched Facebook to tag Darren and Apryl in their previews, I noticed quite a few posts from each of them lifting up the other one. I was especially touched by the way Darren seems to go out of his way to show Apryl how much he loves her. This kind of love is rare, and they really made an impression on me!

Darren and Apryl, thank you for allowing me to photograph your beautiful family!!












The Gerber Family {family portrait session}

Oh this family! These people are near and dear to me, they aren't "like" family, they ARE family. 

All my life I prayed and begged God for a best friend. I had good friends, friends who impacted my life, friends who I still love today and will always cherish. What my heart desired was that ONE friend who would stand by me no matter what, who would always love me even when I'm ugly, and who shared the same interests and humor as me. I assumed that prayer was answered with a resounding "Here you go, my child" when I met and married Jason. 

But isn't it the best when God gives for the pure joy of giving? When your heart's desire falls into your lap and surprises you? That's what happened with Ashley, she is the friend I always prayed for and dreamed about. Our friendship started with a late night chat via Facebook Messenger about our struggles and the rest is history. Our hubbies have since been added to that Facebook Messenger group and the four of us have had it going for years now! It's the perfect way for us to share funnies, angries, saddies, and baddies. Our kids are all friends, and BONUS...Ashley isn't just the friend I prayed for, Ashley and Josh are the couple WE prayed for! 

Enough of the mushy stuff. Just know I love and adore these people, ok?












The Value of Photography

Hi, friends! Let's talk about that elephant in the room.

"Why is photography so expensive?!"

I'll admit, I have asked that same question. Before I knew anything at all about photography, I noticed my camera had a manual setting. I thought "Oh! This might be fun!". I set up my shot, turned some knobs and dials, and excitedly hit the button. To my dismay, however, when I looked at the back of my camera to see my masterpiece, all I saw was black.

Lately it seems anyone can take a good photo, right? Phones have better cameras year after year with continuous improvement. In the age of selfies, we have learned how to hide those areas of ourselves we want to hide while still achieving a new profile picture we're proud of.

If a picture is worth 1000 words, how many dollars is it worth?

Photography is so much more than pushing a button. I am not perfect, I still have tons to learn. But guys...I have done a LOT of learning. Hours and hours of sifting through online tutorials that were good or bad or strange or non-existent. I've invested in educational courses about shooting, editing, posing, and business. And if I'm being completely authentic, I can tell you that today as I sit here typing this blog I still feel like I'm where I started! But, the truth is, I am so far from where I started. While the progress may be slower than I like, I AM making progress and with each session I feel like I improve.

On the topic of investment, let's talk about equipment. You know those photos with the dreamy, creamy backgrounds? The ones where the subject absolutely POPS? While a lot of that has to do with ability, just as much of it has to do with equipment. I won't get into the boring details but I can tell you from experience, there is a world of difference between an entry level camera body and a high-end one. There is a light years' worth of difference between that lens that came with the entry level camera body and the prime 50mm 1.4 or 1.2f (in laymen's terms...the fancy lens all portrait photographers drool over). I don't want to ramble on and on but all I've discussed here is the camera and lens...there are straps, bags, flashes, lights, backdrops, props, reflectors...you get the idea. Oh, and don't forget software, websites, gallery hosts, and regular business costs like insurance, taxes, and an accountant.

What is one of the most valuable possessions each one of us has? Time. Our time is precious and priceless. Time is what we give our top priorities...faith, family, work, fun. Well, photographers value all those things too! While it may seem that your session begins and ends during that 1-2 hour time period you spend in front of the camera, that is certainly not the whole shebang. It takes time before the session to communicate with the client and work out details. It takes time before the session to scout out locations for those clients that need help finding a location. After the session, it takes time to go through all the photos and find the ones good enough to keep. It takes time to look at each photo and fix any problems or just give it that signature "style" each of us has. It takes time to create galleries, post to social media, and follow up with the client after delivery. It takes time to create an order of perfect prints or canvasses or books.

I could probably go on and on about this but I've already gone on too long! I haven't even scratched the surface because think about wedding photography! Probably the most expensive photography job is wedding photography. I'll not get into every single detail but if you're wondering why that photographer just quoted you thousands of dollars to document your once-in-a-lifetime day, think about TIME. If nothing else, consider the amount of time that goes into wedding photography. Your photographer is with you the entire day, from beginning to end, sometimes sun up to sun down. A lot of time they're more than a photographer, they're like a bridal assistant! And don't forget all the time leading up to and after the big day.

Each of us decides what is valuable. My perception of value may be completely different than yours. Maybe you love your cell phone photos and that's all you want...that's absolutely ok! If a photography experience is valuable to you:  An experience where you are valued and important, where the photographer serves you in every way he or she can and at the end...you're rewarded with priceless, gorgeous photos of you and your family that will last lifetime after lifetime...remember that it takes more than a push of a button. Remember how hard that photographer has worked to have the ability to capture your essence on camera and create beautiful works of art with you as the focus.

If you're a Starbucks fan, you more than likely don't ask why their coffee costs more than a McCafe. If you love designer shoes, you more than likely don't ask why they cost more than Walmart. These same principles apply to photography. If you desire valuable photos you will treasure forever, and your kids' kids will treasure forever, photos that show exactly how you love each other today so no one ever forgets, you're putting a price tag on an heirloom or family treasure.

From that perspective, I'd say you're getting a darn good deal!


Photography of a couple in love in the forest during a family session. Couple laughing together. Marriage is fun. Husband and wife enjoying each other.

Family laughing together and loving each other. Family walking with mom and dad and son. Family in their backyard. Family outside together. Beautiful family and marriage.

Beautiful senior girl in a country setting with her horse. Senior girl with her horse under a big sky in the country. High school senior in a fun pose with her horse.

The Ealing Family

When Brooke and I were talking about the location for their family portrait session, she mentioned her backyard. The way she described it, it sounded beautiful. Then she sent me a few videos to show me exactly what it was like and I loved it! BUT...until I saw it in person, I didn't realize how PERFECT it is for pictures! The soft neutral colors are my absolute favorite because when the background is soft and neutral and quiet...the focus is on the people! And those steps...please...I could've done every single photo of them right there on those steps!

A new goal I have for family sessions is to be sure to get a few pictures of Mom and Dad by themselves. As adults, we sometimes think having our own picture taken is silly or vain unless we need a professional headshot for our job. I don't believe it's silly or vain! Why stop documenting and capturing our growth after we graduate from high school? Especially today with all the social media, having a beautiful picture of yourself can give you confidence. When Chad and Brooke are in their 90's, they can look at these pictures and remember how young and vibrant and full of life they were. When Kam is talking about Grandpa and Grandma to his kids, he can show them how beautiful and loving they are!

I had the best time with the Ealing family! We laughed a lot and had a lot of fun and I didn't want it to end! I think the pictures show how much fun we had, more than I could ever describe it!

Loving family relaxing together. Mom, Dad, and son happy together. Happy marriage and family outside having fun. Husband and wife in love with each other.

Happily married beautiful young couple. Couple outside in their yard smiling together. Happy couple in love.

Loving family relaxing together. Mom, Dad, and son happy together. Happy marriage and family outside having fun. Husband and wife in love with each other.

Young couple having fun dancing together. Husband twirling wife. Beautiful couple dancing and twirling. Couple in love. Young couple having fun dancing together. Husband twirling wife. Beautiful couple dancing and twirling. Couple in love. Young couple having fun dancing together. Husband twirling wife. Beautiful couple dancing and twirling. Couple in love.


Beautiful woman outside portrait. Portrait of a gorgeous girl outside. Pretty woman dressed up. Hair goals.

Happily married beautiful young couple. Couple outside in their yard smiling together. Happy couple in love.





 


Staci & Zach {a northeast indiana wedding}

I don't enjoy photographing events.  I feel awkward, I never know exactly what to capture, I feel like I'm in the way, I'm afraid I'm annoying the guests, the list goes on.  But you can see in my list, everything revolves around "ME".

I am learning the key to photographing an event (or anything, really) is to take the "ME" out of it.  I want my work to be centered around the one or ones who are trusting me to document their milestone...whether it be a party, a dinner, a non-profit event, or just a time to update the family pictures.

If I am focusing on the ones I'm serving, I don't have time to worry about me or my feelings.  Which is good because, in these moments, my feelings are not important!  If I am only thinking about the ways in which I can document whatever event it is I'm photographing, if I am only focusing on what would most bless my client, there is no time for "ME".

This revelation started to sink in during Staci & Zach's wedding day.  I had sworn off weddings, because of my feelings about events.  But in ONE WEEK I had SEVEN brides ask me for details on my wedding photography. SEVEN.  I turned away SEVEN potential brides who I could have met, spent time with, became friends with, and eventually documented their special day.

"Ok, time to rethink weddings." I said to myself.  Any photographer knows, however, it's impossible to serve a bride in the best possible way if you have no idea what you're doing.  A wedding is not something I'm willing to just "wing it" and hope for the best.  A wedding is a big deal and you get one shot at getting it right.  So where in the world do I start??

I sent messages to two extremely talented and established wedding photographers in my area, whose work I admire and adore.  They both graciously responded and agreed to allow me to shadow them, or, "second shoot" a wedding with them.  (For non-photographers...to "second shoot" means you are not the main photographer, you are simply there to assist and supplement the main photographer's work.)

My first wedding (and only wedding as of right now!) was Staci & Zach's.  I was second shooting for Hannah Arnold with Visions Photography.  She does amazing work...you should definitely click that link and check her out!

I learned more than I can adequately express in this post.  AND I had so much fun!  Hannah was extremely patient with me, she never got annoyed with my questions and she was very gracious if I messed up or got in her shot.  As second shooter, my focus shifted to the bride and groom, because the pressure of being the only one responsible for catching everything was removed.  My only goal was to come up with all the ways I could get them as many quality photos as possible.

Since then, I have been pondering this.  I need to have this approach on every single session.  I need to ditch the fear and insecurity and move forward, thinking only of my client.  Because my client is the only one who matters during any session or shoot.

So will I do weddings?  Honestly, I still haven't decided.  BUT...I know I could do them and do them well.  I know there will be growth, as in all fields of my work.  And I know that the bride and groom and their desires and dreams come before anything else.

Here are some of my favorite shots I captured of that sweet bride and groom.





















Main photographer - Hannah Arnold, Visions Photography
Portrait Venue - Adams County Historical Museum
Church - Saint Mary of the Assumption Catholic Church Decatur, Indiana
Reception - The Galley Decatur, Indiana
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